Wednesday, 8 September 2010

Mistresses & Married Men!

Mistresses and Married Men!

I would be a guilty party as far as the author of this article is concerned. I'm a mistress to many... a paid mistress. Due to the type of experience I provide, ie companionship, I have been seeing some of my gents for quite a few years. Some have got married during that time and have gone on to have children. They still see me though. Some are already married so I'm the paid mistress from the start.

 Anyway, early this morning, there I was minding my own business, googling for gift ideas for married men, when I fell upon the following:

Below is the article. You will see my thoughts in bold


Mistresses And Married Men:

To all the men out there that have wives, you should know better than to have a mistress or another woman on the side. Don't you know that, this sort of act is dangerous. But not only are you hurting your wives, but your woman on the side too.

Yes, this can be true if the mistress is expecting more out of the relationship. A mistress needs to be aware that she will almost always be the other woman. Not sure about 'dangerous'. I'd say risky.

If you are a married man and you feel that you are unhappy in your marriage, then you should try to work things out with your wife and try not to look or go outside your marriage. It is said that most men that go outside their marriages are usually looking for something more exciting than what they have at home.

Not always the case. Some gents are very happy at home. They just fancy something different now and then. It's a man thing!

To all the mistresses that's out there, you really shouldn't be messing with a married man to begin with because in all actuality, no matter how much time you spend with that married man, he will never leave his wife. Now some men might whine and say that they're not happy at home, but that man might just want to have his cake and eat it too. So be careful!

What's the point of having cake if you can't eat it? Not all mistresses want their lovers to leave their wives. They may be happy to have the best of both worlds too... [eats some more cake... WITH the icing]

However, being a mistress can be very fatal for her because it can get hectic to a point where someone can get hurt or just the both of them, because retaliation is a b----, and a retaliating b----is a crazy one, but it takes two. Although, it's a rhetorical situation altogether.

There will never be a sure fire way of detecting a bunny boiler. You just have to hope you did not pick ms psycho of nutsville thats all!

The rules and regulations behind being a mistress: 
First and foremost, you must always follow the rules, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

There are rules? Drat, nobody tells me anything :(
I'm all ifs, hands and butts about it!

Your duties as a mistress:
It's all about satisfying the man any which way he wants you to, you have to listen to the man, and do as he say, but not like his sex slave. you're basically his girlfriend on the side which only makes you the other woman.

Easy peasy lemon squeezy @ satisfying the man. 
NO. NEVER his girlfriend. Not deluded in any way. Just his mistress!

The good, the bad, and the consequences of being a mistress: 
The good thing is that the man will give his mistress whatever she wants and any amount of cash that she might ask for  and he has no choice but to give it to her. He'll also buy her gifts and take her on getaways and will usually tell his wife that he's on a business trip or something.

Where's the bad? 

Although, the mistress gets a lot down to him renting her a house in the Hamptons. Now there is a negative behind being a mistress and one of the negatives are you can't call the man 24-7 and question his authority because he will give you attitude or make up any excuse so you won't get upset, just cause he was with his wife last night when you were just wondering where he was. You see, that is one of the consequences of being a mistress, you have to deal with a lot of emotional distress and sadness and there's nothing worse than a jealous mistress, because a jealous mistress can be dangerous just like in the movie fatal attraction.

Ah, there's the bad!
Falling in love in general can be really rather distressing! Nothing to do with whether the chap is married or not.

Note to the men: Being a mistress is not an easy thing because the woman is taking a chance of being your mistress, even though she knows that you have a wife at home.

uhuh...

So you as the man, it is your duty to take care of her no matter what and make sure you do what you're supposed to do as far as that situation goes, and you should always take care of home besides the person that you're involved with on the side because it wouldn't be fair to both women.

You heard her boys! Look after us or else you'll have Nadia to answer to... [rolls eyes]
  So, when it comes to mistresses and married men: 
Will you try to work things out with your wife instead of being with another woman, or will you risk your life knowing that deep down inside that the other woman could be a psycho!

Or will you simply book a date with an escort? Ha!

Ok back to real life...

Yesterday I was the cause of an accident. Indirectly...
I was at a junction waiting for a gap so I could move out. Chap behind pulls up beside me to try and get out before me. This is a single lane... dunno how he got the car beside mine! Anyway I see an opportunity and move out... He obviously saw the same and moved out too. I pull out safely and on my way when I hear a loud bang. I look in the mirror and lo and behold. Nutter has only gone and crashed his car into oncoming traffic. I felt guilty. Why was I feeling guilty? Was it my fault he decided to make a dangerous move by overtaking on a junction?

Indian Delight Jasmin
London Docklands
Escort - Mistress - Social companion!

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