Summing up 2009 and the SALES!!!

 2009.... Oh what a year!

Another year almost coming to an end. And what a year it has been

My return in February after a years break to pursue other goals I had, dreams I wanted to realise, skills I wanted to brush up on etc.

What a time to return to escorting. The prime of the credit crunch! Madness? Not at all. I'll tell you what you could call madness... putting my rates up for the first time in nearly 7 years. Did it lose me any custom? No it honestly did not. Within the first couple of weeks, my old regulars had seen my website/ads back up and running and immediately contacted me. Some had recognised me by the way I take my pictures. Others by my body parts... ie, legs, bottom, feet... interesting... I've only ever recognised one gent by his hand... I was driving alongside his porsche on the A13 (stuck in a traffic jam as per usual) heading to my evening class and I saw his hand on the steering wheel. Until that point I had no idea it was him!


Its been a truly amazing year for me. I achieved quite a bit.... a qualification I had pursued for years as well as another I did on the side. Work got very busy, not to mention the escorting. As a result of being a busy bee I didn't manage to get away this year. I don't really mind. I was away a couple of times last year with my gents so mustn't complain! I made some big changes in my life too. If you know me well enough, you will know of these changes :)

I got to grips with writing blogs this year.  I had avoided them for so long but a couple of my gents encouraged me to write. I never thought anyone read them until I started getting emails from people who were reading them. It felt really strange at first. I try not to write solely about my experiences as an escort and write more about my thoughts and ideas.

Growing old gracefully/disgracefully

I turned 40 this year too. Yep... the big four oh!!! Also got my first grey hair... right in the front. I wouldn't have noticed if it hadn't been for the ray of sun that made it stick out like a sore thumb. It doesn't bother me at all. Ageing that is. It doesn't bother me right now anyway. Finding the grey strand was rather amusing. I told anyone and everyone about it. Hey, its a big deal for me you know. I'm quite proud of it too! I may not feel the same when more start sprouting. I cant imagine having to colour my hair all the time to try and cover the greys. Sounds too much like hard work!

I also met up with Penny for the first time this year
(see her website link on the right over there)
As you know, I don't really interact in person with my fellow escorts. Just light hearted banter online is quite sufficient for me. Penny is different. We got on from the day I met her in the punterlink chatroom several years ago. It was inevitable that we should eventually meet. We clicked instantly and decided to offer duo bookings together. It's worked out pretty well to date!

Christmas Sales!

Have you been to the Sales? I'm not a sale's person. Cant be doing with crowds. People behave very common. The stampedes i've seen on the television (good grief)! People running in the stores before the shutters are fully opened. A friend who works in retail confirmed this by the way! No. Definitely not for me. I'm the silly one who tends to pay full price for everything and if I do pick up a bargain it is purely accidental.

You know I am a self confessed shopaholic though. If I like it (and it's within my means), I'll buy it. I like pretty things. Who doesn't. Does that make me materialistic? I say it does. I work hard, save hard and spend hard! As long as I'm putting something away every month, no harm done.

Credit crunch 

It's hit some people very hard. People who had fruitful business suddenly found themselves looking for jobs themselves. Heartbreaking to watch business of close friends go under. Its not all been that way. For some, it actually worked in their favour. They found themselves to be busier than they had ever been before.

Resolutions for 2010

I have none...

I do have some goals but they don't have to be achieved in a year! They are just things that would be interesting to add to my 'DONE' list. My TO DO list only has 2 things left. I'm sure I will get to them eventually.

THANK YOU

I want to thank all my old friends as well as the new ones I have made this year.  Its been an absolute pleasure getting to know the new gents. Those of you who have spoilt me rotten and those of you who rallied round me when I got sick.

Here's to the year gone by and the year to come.  I wish you everything your heart desires and more.

Yes the champagne is alcohol free!

Lust and kisses to you all

Jasmin xxx

Playing with the...

 No,  not that. Well ok, that too lol!

I've been playing with my macbook webcam. Its not bad. Ok it is pretty bad in the night but okish in daylight. One big snag is the timer. As many of you know, I prefer to take my own photos so a 3 second timer really does not give me enough time to get the pose right! In face, If I were to try and take the kind of photos I do with my usual cam, you'd probably only get to see a blur... the blur being me making a mad rush to get to the spot I want to be in lol

Here is how bad the pics look taken at night time. 

Pretty bad huh? It gets worse!

Told ya!!!

I do like the poses though. Must remember to take some when I take new pics for my website :)
Just a bit of a problem with loading the cam software on mac. Not a lot of software compatible with mac is there? I hear you can split the drive so that you can have both mac and pc. I think I'll just buy a pc laptop instead. I seem to go through too many laptops so it wouldn't hurt to have a spare one just to play games, take photos and other stuff. The mac I can use just for work.

Christmas

I don't celebrate Christmas as such... you know... Tree, Turkey, church etc... but I do love how everything just sparkles!

Beautifully decorated trees everywhere, brightly lit stores, merry music etc. I love giving presents to my Christian neighbours and friends. As a child I remember mother bringing home lots of boxes of chocs and candied fruit to give to the teachers. We never celebrated ourselves as we had our own religious festivals to celebrate, but mother always made sure my teachers and neighbours got a gift from us every Christmas and Easter.

I was never sure about Santa. I think I was a little afraid of him. I could not wait to get off his lap. Always felt he had a sack full of naughty children that he turned into elves to work in his toy factory. Don't ask where I got that idea. The booming loud voice going 'ho ho ho' scared me too. Imagine him saying that to me now eh? lol

What I don't like about Christmas is the whole 'keeping up appearance' malarkey! The debts that follow. I've seen friends struggle afterwards just because they felt they had to buy expensive gifts for friends and family. I do understand where they are coming from. They feel they have no choice.  It's quite sad how commercial its become.

I've had some interesting and thoughtful presents through the post this year. I would really love to know who some are from though! How can I thank you if there is not indication as to who you are?

Christmas is a busy time. You'd think it would go quiet around this time of the year right? Wrong!!!
Lots of people do not celebrate Christmas. Even those that do may not have family etc, so rather than spend the holidays alone, they will seek companionship.  Snow hasn't been so bad here in the Docklands. It hasn't settled on the pavement... just on my car! I should scrape it off before it hardens really shouldn't I?

I'm looking forward to seeing some of you over Christmas and new year. Be good 'til then wont you? (pfffft @ you behaving... I like you just the way you are lol)

Lust and kisses
Jasmin
www.indiandelight-uk.com

No pain, No gain!

A couple of days one of my gents decided we should go somewhere different for dinner.
 "How about Leicester?" he asked.
 I'd only ever been there once as a teen.
"Dinner in Leicester sounds like great idea" I said.
So he picked me up in the afternoon and off we went. Got stuck in the traffic right here in London for about an hour!
Arrived around 6ish and had a little walk around some shops. Got back in the car. I hadn't had lunch so I was quite looking forward to dinner.
"We need to make one stop before we have dinner" he said.
He pulls up in the driveway of a nice house. Nice Indian lady greets us and ushers us to a waiting room where 3 people are waiting.
"Hmmm where are we?" I asked

My gent explains we are waiting to see a specialist who may be of some use to my 'predicament' so to speak. I'm touched. What a considerate thing to do. The 2 girls sat across the room are summoned to the practitioners room.

I can hear faint voices then just out of the blue I hear one of the girls scream. OH MY GOD! It sounded like he was killing her. It carried on for 15 minutes. All went quite again. Then I hear screaming again. Must have been the second girl cos the screams were different. By now I've decided I really don't want to be here. I get up to go but my gent pulls me back in the seat and reassures me. I can hear the girl crying at one point. What a drama queen I thought. I cant be THAT bad. Me? Nah, you wont hear a peep out of me!
The lady before me looks at me and says "It's my first time too. I'm terrified after hearing all that. Mind you. I only have a very slight problem so I think I will be ok!".
"Oh yes. You'll be just fine. Don't worry" I say, trying to sound like I meant it.

Another gent walks into the waiting room and takes a seat. Oh great. Now if I do make a sound, this gent will hear me. How embarrassing would that be?
The girls leave and the lady before me goes in. Not a sound from her. She comes out with a smile and winks at me saying "He's very gentle don't worry".

Its my turn. The usual questions then asked to lie on the specially prepared floor face down.
He is a slight man. He cant do me much harm I'm thinking.
Boy was I wrong. He gave me a sense of false security. Just feeling the spine, piriformis and leg. All very gentle. He hmmm's and ahhhh's for a moment then says "This is going to hurt and you may have difficulty breathing". YOU THINK?
I think half the Leicester heard me scream. Worse part is he didn't stop there. He carried on all the way down my spine, piriformis, thigh and calf. I was wriggling like a fish out of water. He scolded me and asked me to lie still. Yeah right. Like I would! He decided the only way to keep me still was to sit on my legs!!! There's no getting away now. He was digging in so deep... unbearable pain. I think I may have called him a few names and said some unladylike things during the process (shame on me).
At one point, I reached behind my back and managed to somehow grab both his wrists, refusing to let go. He scolds me again and insists I leg go. "NO! Only if you promise to stop hurting me".  And so it carried on until he was satisfied he had done his job. 20 minutes of pure unadulterated agony. Its done. I got up and get dressed. He tells me I may be a little bruised for a couple of days but should feel the benefits soon and that I was welcome to return the following week for a follow up treatment. Great.

I come out of the room all flustered and embarrassed. My gent gives me a cheeky smile. If I was mad at him before, I certainly wasn't now! The man waiting to be seen smiles! Oh lord, he heard me screaming!

Well 2 days later I feel quite fine. I think I will be back at work next week but will remember to take things easily.

Thank you J****. That was a pretty amazing thing you did for me.

Strange texts

Christmas seems to have gone to a few peoples head. I've suddenly started receiving some very odd texts. eg

"Hi. I will give you 20k for 6 hours of sucking my ****"

Oh woopdidoo!!!

"Hi dear. Can you do an outcall for 1 hour? My name is ******* and I live in Delhi".

Oh sure. I'll just jump into my private jet. See you in a few hours!

December seems to bring me odd texts and voicemails lol

Stop it. Just stop it!

R***** has been hounding me again. R***** is under 30 years old and like a fool I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt early this year as he seemed so nice on the phone.

I quickly realised I would never 'click' with him and so proceeded to avoid his calls or make excuses. Eventually things got to a point where I had to be straight up with him and tell him to stop calling me as it was now turning into harassment. He went quiet for a few months but started again 2 days ago. Many calls/messages etc later I finally relented realising he would not go away, so I answered his call. Warned him that I would have to take legal action as his actions were completely unacceptable. He's promised not to bother me again. Lets see how long it lasts this time!

Hope you are all keeping nice and warm. Drive safely
ps. Thank you for the book Mike K. I love it. You put a huge smile on my face xxxxxxxx

Lust and kisses
Jasmin
www.indiandelight-uk.com

Taking orders... no no no!

I decided to go shopping yesterday.
I think I underestimated the recovery time from my recent ailment mentioned in previous blogs. So I'm back in bed!

Serves me right... Bad, bad Jasmin!

Taking orders!

If someone orders me to do something, I'm likely to do quite the opposite! I am as stubborn as they come. This has had quite an impact on the sort of person I am today. Worked for myself since... well... since I was 12! Working for others, well the longest I've held down a job is about 8 months.

Mother (yes we do call her that lol... kind of stuffy huh?) noticed I had a talent. So what's this talent?

When I was knee high, I'd make clothes for my doll. I'd draw around the doll placed on some paper then cut the around with paper scissors. I'd then try and glue the 2 parts together... didn't work and was very frustrating. So when i was around 8ish I was allowed to use real scissors (under supervision of course... mother would have wrapped us in cotton wool if she could) and there was no stopping me.


Skip a few years and at 10 I was allowed to use my sisters sewing machine. I wasn't allowed to use it on fabric. I used it on A4 lined paper!!! Yes you read correctly... lined paper! It was so that I could sew in a straight line. What a genius idea. Once I was confident enough, I was made to use unlined paper to see if I had mastered the handling of the sewing machine.

Yes... that's what my machine looked like but we had a motor fitted to it!

At the ripe old age of eleven and a half I was allowed to take some private dressmaking classes to develop my skills. I took to it instantly and after just 2 months I was a fully fledged dressmaker! So at 12 I started making clothes for neighbours, friends, family etc. Great pocket money!

In my late teens I had moved onto soft furnishing. I'd make bedding, curtains, lampshades etc... everything to match ones decor

I tried my hand at many things. All were great fun but quite hard at times too. In my mid 20's I had moved to Lancashire and in a different line of work with 20 people working for me. Oh what a pain it was (but the money was great lol).

That was when I realised just how much of a perfectionist I really was. You know the saying... "If there's a job worth doing, it's worth doing well"! Well in my world... if there's a job worth doing, do it yourself! I just wanted to do everything myself so that I knew it was perfect! Impossible of course!

After a couple of years later I sold my business and moved to London. Went back into education and 4 years later I was a qualified  _____________ (please fill in blank space) LOL.

Oh come on now... you know I cant tell you what i really do! I can honestly say, hand on my heart, nobody from my escorting world, clients and fellow escorts alike, really knows what my other line of income is.  They know of 'one' of my jobs but that's it! I prefer it that way. You already know how I fell into part-time escorting if you read my old blogs

So anyway, here I am many years later, lots of experience under my belt, in bed with a sore leg, rambling on about yesteryear! I have very few regrets. I see everything as an experience be it good or bad. I wouldn't be the person I am today had I not had these experiences. Perhaps the reason why I'm such a happy-go-lucky kind of girl.

Lust you lots

Jasmin xx

www.indiandelight-uk.com

Debts and I'm back...

... and raring to go. 

I'm not ready to go back to work just yet.  My other work that is. One more week should be sufficient.
As for escorting... yes I'm definitely back!

Its great to have my independence back. Hated being a 'patient' instead of the 'carer'. I was born a 'mother hen'.

One caring gent emailed me asking how I would manage financially whilst I was off sick.  I explained to him that like any independent woman, I have sufficient funds to get me through such times when I may not be able to work.

I don't understand what I have been hearing and reading lately.
About how some ladies are struggling financially. That does not make any sense to me. How can anyone be struggling when they earn this much? I am only a part time escort as you already know. I do not take more than one booking per day, not only because of my other work and commitments but because I prefer not to 'hotbed'. Now, with just part timing I earn enough to retire from my other line of work should I wish to do so. So if these woman are seeing several gents per week, why are they struggling? Where is the money going? In just 2 months I have had 3 gentlemen tell me how they have 'bailed' ladies out. I'm astonished by these confessions. Very admirable of the gentlemen of course but extremely worrying that they feel its their duty to help these women out.

I chatted to a couple of working girls some time ago. I questioned why they had not saved any money.

Their responses were rather disappointingly flimsy:

"I like to go out every weekend and most of my money goes on partying"
"I've never been good with money"
"My money goes on holidays"

Only one lady admitted her earnings were mostly going on 'stuff' which I don't approve of (you know  stuff of the intoxicating variety... ahem!). I can understand the money going fast on that 'habit' but the other reasons? Nope! They don't make any sense to me.

To me, having savings is far far farrrrrrrrrr more important than having a holiday!
Don't get me wrong. I'm not stingy! I love spending and I treat myself almost daily! I love spoiling my friends and family too.

I work hard, spend hard and save harder!

My motto is IF YOU HAVE'NT GOT IT... DON'T SPEND IT!

Great to be back and see you soon
Jasmin xx
www.indiandelight-uk.com

UPDATE:  8/12/2009

I've had a lot of feedback on this blog. Thank you all those who took the time to read it and getting back to me with your thoughts. So far all the respondents have agreed with me on this debt malarkey however, my good friend Bricktop of punternet brought my attention to another factor on why some people may be in debt regardless of their high earnings... GAMBLING! He commented that my blog, although harsh, was spot on. He also commented that the media was not helping when gamblers are constantly tempted by adverts like 'Sponsered by Bingo/poker' etc etc etc.

On the mend...

I'm feeling much better today.  Managed to get to the bathroom without the aid of the dreaded walking stick! The pain is still there but not as intense as it had been for the last 2 weeks. Still on double the meds and still off sick. No plans yet to start taking escort bookings either. I think it will be another week before i'm up to it.

Its been a bit of a nightmare for me. I'd gone from being an extremely independent person to a ragdoll who needed help getting dressed!!!

My friends and clients have been rallying around me. Its strange because I'm usually the mother hen who enjoys fussing around them. Now I'm on the receiving end. I'm not a very good patient. Keep trying to do things myself then double over in pain and get a good telling off

My bedroom had started to look like a florist.

Beautiful flowers that cheered me up. With the blessings of the senders, I decided to donate some of the bouquets to the local retirement home. I felt they would be just as much appreciated by these elderly people as they were by me.

I can not thank you gentlemen enough for the kind words, flowers, cards etc. 

Words will never express how moved I was by your kindness

The way you all rallied around me...

The gent who sent food for me every day because he didn't like the idea of me living on takeaways.
The gent who sent me bags full of groceries because he knew I wouldn't be able to go shopping myself.
The endless calls asking me if I needed a ride to my appointments or needed any chores doing.
Funny text messages that kept my spirits up.
All these gestures and offers, I accepted very gratefully as there is no way I could have done any of it myself.
I hope that if ever you need a helping hand, I will be the first one there.

Lust you lots
Jasmin xx